Monday, 28 April 2008

感触

有时侯,
你有没有想过,
每当你在批评人家的不对,
其实你自己也犯下同样的错误.
当局者迷, 旁观者清
只是我们自己有时侯不没发觉到,
别人知道后, 又不好意思当面指责.
有时侯, 我觉得, 我们在批评别人时,
首先必须照一照镜子,
看清楚自己也有没有犯下同样的错误.
我们总是看不到自己长得什么样子的,
我们总是需要一面镜子,
才能看到自己的模样.

在刚过去的周末里,
我领悟到, 也观察到, 也体会到,
朋友之间的互相帮助, 互相照顾, 互相扶持.
可能有时侯,
当你生病的时候, 很希望朋友可以照顾你.
但他们并没有对你伸出援手,
十分失望, 十分伤心.
只好靠自己的力量, 自己给自己的安慰,
希望自己可以康复.
相反的
每当朋友生病的时候
而那个朋友并没有在你最需要他的时刻,
出现在你面前,
陪伴在你身边,
照顾你, 鼓励你, 安慰你,
你又会怎么办呢?
袖手旁观吗?
所谓的
'以牙还牙'
还是
'他做初一, 我做十五'

不...
我总觉得我们并不能这样对待朋友.
我们应该在他生病的时候, 照顾他.
让他领悟到自己以往所忽略的一切
这样一来, 他也可以从中学习,
彼此之间的关系也可以变得融洽些.

到现在,
我真的很高兴
感到很满足
因为至今我还是可以坚持着那信念.

母亲节来临了.
只想对您说声,
妈, 谢谢您多年来的照顾.
我体会到了您的辛苦和操劳.
您太伟大了.

真没想到照顾一个人是那么的辛苦.
因为担心, 晚上也睡不着觉;
因为担心, 不能专心做功课;
看到别人渐渐的康复,
心里总是有着那令人兴奋自豪的满足感,
和最重要的是安心.

谢谢一声,
可以把你之前的疲劳给蒸发掉

我体验过那种感受
遗憾的是,
我妈从来没有从我口中
听到一声谢谢.
妈.....谢谢您!

(when your friend is sick, we should take good care of him and give him moral support, even though he didn't help you before when you were sick, even though he is a bad person, after all he is your friend.)

Saturday, 19 April 2008

how to be......continue

Recently there is one word, that i always come across in my mind. During a conversation with my friend, we were talking and talking and then i mentioned that particular word. the word is neither bombastic word nor difficult word. perhaps everyone learns that word in kindergarten. The word is just as simple as 'MAN'.

So i did some research online to find out the meaning of MAN.

A man is a male human. The term man (irregular plural: men) is used for an adult human male, with the term boy being the usual term for a human male child or adolescent human male. However, man can refer to humanity as a whole and is also sometimes used to identify a male human, regardless of age.

Manhood is the period in a male's life after he has transitioned from boyhood, at least physically, during puberty.

A boy is a male human child. For many, the word man implies a certain degree of maturity and responsibility that young men in particular often feel unprepared for; yet they may also feel too old to be called a boy. For this reason, many avoid using either man or boy to describe a young man and prefer colloquial terms such as bloke, lad, chap, fellow, guy, dude or bro.

wikipedia

Some replies from the sms that i have sent.

human adult male..... or human beings.

Masculine man>>>very complicated species 2 understand.
People man>>>> weird creatures who put 2 much emphasis on things dat dun really matter.

some of d gals may say "you are not man at all" just because that guy isnt gentleman. but i totally disagree. for me, all guys r man no matter they r gentleman o not. man should have man's look, man's voice, man's body-not necessary with muscle, walk like man, n act like man-d way he carry himself. this exclude d guy that we called 'soft'. personal characteristic hav nothing to do with gender. people always look at our outward appearance but God looks at our though n intention

a man is a man; he can be a jerk n i still don't care. but if it's what do i expect of a good man the answer would be something like this.nothing much on the must-have qualities, mostly bout must-not haves. Man must be gentleman, tolerate with woman. must not b: indecisive, nag like women, too timid, bad tempered, must not have bad habits eg smoking...


In the bible,

In Genesis 2:15 God put His man, Adam in a garden and gave him his first assignment, to work. Work was given to him to advance the purpose of God. God wanted Adam to have fulfillment, and to enable him to provide for his own needs as well as those for whom he would eventually be responsible for.

Corinthians 13:11 states "When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things".

What is the meaning of the word "man"? the answer is quite subjective. it depends on how you think actually. Do you think if a guy cries a lot, sheds tears watching heart touching dramas, that guy should not be considered as a man? Or if a guy that always play play and is not being serious in things he does? Or a guy that is sensitive and easily offended by what people say? or a guy that is physically strong and has a manly look? or a guy which has done so many bad things and and bad habits? or a guy that simply runs away from his responsibility toward things that he is obliged to? or a guy that is brave enough to sacrifice himself for the sake of others? Are they considered as man?

No conclusion can be made here actually. it depends on the different perspective. Some people say if a guy is not mature, acting like a child, and the way he carries himself is childish, doesn't think before he says anything or reacts, that guy is not a man.

In my opinion a man should be a person that is willing to take responsibility for all his actions and knows when to be playful and when to be serious, regardless what he has achieved in life and in society, a successful person he could be, or a person that contributes a lot in various fields. Such accomplishments is the measurement for success, not necessary that the guy is a man. the measurement for manhood, in my own opinion, is that a man should be responsible for his own action and the people who are under his responsibility, for example family. My father is a man, though he never made any big accomplishment in life,but for me he has done great things to his family, though he had done something wrong in the past, that a 'man' on no account should ever, ever commit. but because of family, he has changed. for me that is man. being able to change and take responsibility for his family and my future.

i know, yeah my friend is right. though i am 20 years old, still i am not a man. i agree with my friend. i am not a boy, not yet a man. Life is a learning process. we are learning; I am learning how to surpass the transition state and finally be a man.

if you don't understand what i am writing about... just ignore it i also dunno what i have written. hehe. it just the thoughts that come across my mind. i ask somebody

just a random person that i pick to ask to complete my research

A: Are you a man?
B: nope
B: haha
B: y
A: are you afraid to admit you are a man because you think you are mentally unprepared and not yet mature enough to be classified as man
B: yea dats right
A: by definition, man can be just as simple as a male. if you think in more simple way
B: er
B: ok
A: you think you are not because of the standard or certain targets or criteria you have to achieve before you can surpass the transition
A: standard that you set yourself

(i talk as if i am an expert. haha just another random post from me in my blog........ i hope you enjoy reading!)

continue...

actually every one, some day, will be a man. and whether we would be a good one or bad one, that depends on ourselves. it is observed that, when guys involve in relationship or partnership, they would be more mature and take responsibility of themselves and also their partner. One that you would never think of that he would do particular things for the sake of their partner. they show their partner the other side of them that he has shown to their friends.

i really hope that one day, i have the courage to admit that..... i am a man.




Tuesday, 15 April 2008

Umbrella

Its raining!
That's was me with the red file.
and also my friend Shiva (*not the real name..) =)


*typical phrase used among ALGians nowadays. started by dont-know-who

Peribahasa for today!

original>>>>>Sediakan payung sebelum hujan.
sambungan>>>>tapi kami, beli payung semasa hujan.


origin:
After having dinner in Pak Li, by the time i wanted to walk out from the mall. i halted. There was a downpour and the worse thing was that i forgot to bring along my umbrella. So i was kinda stuck in the mall. After wandering around in My News.com for about 5-10 minutes, it was still pouring like hell. so we decided to buy an umbrella from Giant, the nearest place that sells umbrella. The drivers here in Shah Alam are not being considerate towards the pedestrian at all . when we wanted to cross the road heading to Giant, the cars didn't stop and even slow down for us to cross the road first. we were rushing and jumping here and there to avoid from stepping on the water puddle and get ourselves wet. and yet they were being considerate at all. Mereka ni.. teruk laaaaaaaa.


so we bought an umbrella, we ended up hugging each other, walking in the rain under the protection of newly bought low quality china made umbrella.
so next time when you are driving and people are rushing under the rain, please be considerate. let them walk first, so that they wont end up soaking wet because they have to wait for your car to pass then can only cross the road.....

Tuesday, 8 April 2008

das schlimmste Gefühl in INTEC

written in German, because i have more confidence in my German then English.
That's the fact. too bad it is too late for me to do something for my English. Language can't be improved in days but years.

bin sehr deprimiert und verdrossen
Warum? Warum?
frage mich.

schließlich
habe ich bekommen
was ich will: Gute Note für English

AS English zu bestehen
vielleicht ein C zu bekommen
das ist mein Ziel.

Aber was in Trial-Exam passierte,
macht mir sehr traurig
ich bin der Einzige, der ein A bekommen.
und deswegen jetzt stehe ich unter Druck

Nie! Nie! ich habe dazu gelangt.
Seltsam? warum? ein A.
müsste ich sehr glücklich sein. oder?
leider nicht.
ich kann nicht glauben, dass ich besser als Johann oder Grace bin.
ich verdiene die Note nicht. gar nicht!!!!!!!
Der Lehrer sagte- ich habe Gluck!
(dass mein Aufsatz von Sharina korrigiert wurde, denke ich)


ich weiß genau, wie hoch mein Niveau ist.
Ein A? Nur wenn die Sonne aus Westen aufging, bekäm ich so.

Heute wurde meine Fähigkeit bewiesen
Der Lehrer fragte mich
warum habe ich den Aufsatz nicht gut wie in Trial-Exam geschrieben.
Mein Niveau ist gesunken.
ich schweigte. Ahnunglos.

Tut mir sehr Leid. ich möchte etwas Schlectes sagen.
Scheiße!
Meine English war nicht gut und ist nicht gut!
ich bin nicht eine der 40(Pünkte) Studenten.

ich weiß das, rein und deutlich.
ich bin nicht gut in English.
Deswegen sage ich.
ich verdiene nicht
ich verdiene nicht
den A in Trial-Exam

jetzt in diesem Moment
ich stehe unter Druck und leide mich unter Stress.
Hilf mir bitte!
Belastungen...................
kann nicht mehr diese ertragen.
kann nicht mehr diese aushalten.
Fast...Fast weinte ich.
ich bemerke, dass nichts sich verändern wird,
wenn ich weine.

dies Gefühl
ist sehr sehr schlimm
ich habe alles, was ich tun kann, gemacht.

ich bin Stolz darauf, was ich zurzeit gelangt habe.

One God with Many Names.

Christians says that to access the hard drive, you have to click on the Jesus icon. No other icon will let you access the hard drive.

Muslims say it's a spiritual crime to use any icon at all. Never confuse the hard drive with any of the silly icons on the desktop. Access the drive directly, with the code Mohammed provided.

hindus say, hey click on any icons, Every icon on the screen will connect you with the hard drive. Don't see any icon you like? Make up a new one-it will work just as well

From the Complete Guide Idiots' Guide to Hinduism.

It is a nice metaphor right. Try to read this book. The informations are presented in a interesting way and the writer's tone is quite informal.